(2009/11/06 00:28)
隨著經濟活動的蕭條、物質生活的膨脹,讓原本男主外女主內的傳統,進階但卻又退化到男女皆得主外才能足以養家活口的地步,因此,現在絕大多數的孩子必須開始學習跟著父母一起加班,近日兒福聯盟公佈了ㄧ項駭人聽聞的調查,台灣約有七成五的學童必須要上安親班,其中不乏晚上八、九點後才能回家的孩子,驚人的數據背後所呈現出的是現代家庭的辛酸與無奈。
曾幾何時,台灣社會的連動已經蔓延擴及到20年後台灣未來主力的主人翁身上,是價值的混淆還是功利主義的作祟,讓物慾使然的情感必須要無情地加諸在才開始享受生命的孩子身上。
在台灣叫「安親班」,在中國大陸叫「小飯桌」,顧名思義就是要幫父母在親子無法互動下的另一個替代機構,不只可以解決吃喝拉撒還可以代位教養,更可以在班級聯絡簿中的家長欄位代簽,且以代理人身分與學校導師進行親師溝通,唯一不同的只有教養是父母的天職與義務,而安親班必須看付費的多寡來進行管教服務的等級判別。
兒福聯盟調查的數據或許讓父母看到了感到不堪,但是在業主眼中卻成為無限商機,然後演化成巧奪豪取的動力,學校4點放學時間ㄧ到,安親班的老師、車子早已在學校所安排的定點待命就位,先遑論這些車子設備是否依照相關規定,光就超載就讓人直冒冷汗。來到安親班內狹小的空間,無論一年級或六年級都在相同高度的桌椅上開始振筆疾書,為了提高孩子作業的正確性來讓父母感到肯定,甚至更提供了標準答案已供參考,孩子畢竟是孩子,看到大家都在抄誰會自己寫?
點心時間,廉價奶精紅茶混雜著數得出的粉圓再加上濃郁的糖水也可以讓孩子趨之若鶩爭相搶食,然後才藝班開始上陣,英語、作文、心算、數學、勞作、鋼琴、畫畫……建構孩子課業外的壓力但卻勾勒出父母的虛榮。
安親班或許讓不得不的父母有了盡到教養義務自慰的藉口,但卻讓孩子提早面臨社會化的悲哀,許多反差性社會行為往往就在不自覺中同儕學習中慢慢建立,直到有一天孩子的學校老師打電話通知,小孩偷東西、罵髒話、欺騙、說謊、打架……才開始自憐,為什麼我會生出一個歹子。
教養學習、家庭教育是父母的專業科目不容小覷,但是有多少身為父母者能順利All pass這也是學校教育最無力的區塊,先別說以尋找教育合夥人的心態選擇安親班,單就以消費者的立場選擇也應該先做功課再加以抉擇,貨品可以挑便宜的買,或是用力地殺很大,但是教育學習和看醫生是不能夠要求便宜些或是等待週年慶,因此安親班要如何選擇將是父母讓孩子身心靈減少傷害的重要關鍵。
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- Nov 11 Wed 2009 15:16
轉:放學後的孩子,你好嗎?●作者蘇子鈞
- Nov 10 Tue 2009 12:17
快報!! 打起來了,朝鮮韓國發生戰爭
打起來了,朝韓打起來了。
韓朝海軍在西部海域發生交火 傷亡不明
新華網快訊:據韓國聯合通訊社報道,韓國與朝鮮海軍10日在西部海域發生交火。
新華網首爾11月10日電(記者姬新龍
班威)韓國聯合通訊社10日援引政府消息人士的話報道,韓國和朝鮮海軍當天上午在西部海域的「北方限制線」附近發生交火。
報道說,當天上午,朝鮮一艘警備艇越過「北方限制線」,韓國海軍「進行了警告射擊」,但朝鮮警備艇「置之不理繼續南下」,韓國方面開火射擊,朝鮮方面進行了回擊。
報道說,到目前為止,交火事件是否造成人員傷亡還不得而知。
「北方限制線」是韓國和美國在朝鮮戰爭停戰後單方面在西部海域劃定的海上界線,朝鮮對此不予承認。
中新網11月10日電
據韓聯社報道,當地時間10日上午,朝韓海軍艦艇在西海北方界限線海上交火。
韓國政府高官當天表示:「當天上午,我國海軍發現朝鮮警備艇越過西海北方限界線,進行了警告射擊,但該警備艇繼續南下,我方隨即進行了擊破射擊,朝方對此也進行了回應射擊。」
環球網記者高友斌報道
據韓聯社11月10日報道,朝韓海軍艦艇當地時間10日上午11時28分左右在西海大青島附近海上交火,韓方沒有傷亡損失。
韓國政府高官當天表示:「10日上午,朝鮮艦艇越過西海大青島附近的北方限界線,我國海軍發現險情進行了警告射擊,但該艦艇繼續南下,我方隨即進行了擊破射擊,朝方對此也進行了回應射擊。」
他還說:「在交火過程中,我方沒有傷亡損失,但朝方艦艇被破損後,返回了朝鮮。」「當時,有9艘我方漁船在作業,但全部被護送到了安全海域。」
- Nov 09 Mon 2009 07:06
抢先視頻宣傳發表 迈克尔杰克逊官方圖鑑全集--12月7日出版
抢先視頻宣傳發表 迈克尔杰克逊官方圖鑑全集--12月7日出版
11月8日
http://www.pic-pal.com/show-image.php?id=0956badef62396ee428d047f3f54a9ff
(美联社)迈克尔杰克逊官方圖鑑全集(The official Michael Jackson Opus)--是對流行音乐之王獨一無二的禮讚。在超大,400页的致敬文獻裡将以照片為主體,而且也将包括文章,插图和诗歌,其中至少有一半為獨家發表,封面由的皮革手工裝訂和丝绸內裡的精裝收藏盒。
類似企劃的商品价格將超过2000美元, 但杰克逊的這本书的将定價為165美元。 “迈克尔希望这能够尽可能的接触到更多的人“Kraken总裁 Karl Fowler如是说道。
這本迈克尔杰克逊官方圖鑑全集,现在已發布一項宣傳視頻。
来源:examiner.com/ mjsunny 翻译:juyac
(將即時更新視頻!!敬請期待!!
- Nov 09 Mon 2009 06:10
A sneak peek at the Official Michael Jackson Opus released on December 7 (video)
AP
The official Michael Jackson Opus is a tribute to the King of Pop like no other. The oversized, 400-page tribute will be driven by photos but also will include essays, illustrations and poetry, at least half of it exclusive — all handbound in leather and enclosed in a silk clamshell case.
Where other projects have been priced at more than $2,000, the Jackson book will cost $165. "Michael wanted this to be accessible to as many people as possible," says Kraken CEO Karl Fowler.
A new video preview of the Michael Jackson Opus is now available and can be viewed below.
- Nov 09 Mon 2009 05:39
ABC
ABC
Title track of the Jackson 5’s second album, issued in May 1970 in the
States and August 1970 in the UK.
Originally titled ‘1-2-3’ and ‘ABCD’ – demo versions known to exist.
Premiered on the American Bandstand TV show in the States, on which
Michael also revealed he was a big Beatles fan.
Appeared on a promotional film sent to concert promoters in 1970, to
let them know who the Jackson 5 were – performance filmed at the
group’s first Motown concert in Philadelphia.
Released as a single in February 1970 in the USA and May 1970 in the
UK. Achieved no.1 in the States on both the Hot 100 (for two weeks),
where it toppled Let It Be by the Beatles, and the R&B chart (for four
weeks). Charted at no.8 in the UK.
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Outsold the Jackson 5’s debut hit, I Want You Back, and was the no.8
best selling single of 1970 in the States.
Motown celebrated the success of ABC by pressing gold (yellow) vinyl
copies, with an accompanying press release that stated: ‘Because of all
the million selling records we’ve had in the past, none soared beyond
the million mark faster than ABC by the Jackson 5. It did it in less than
12 days!’
Grammy Award nomination: Best Contemporary Vocal Performance
by a Duo, Group or Chorus (the Carpenters took the award, for (They
Long To Be) Close To You).
Featured in ‘It All Started With’, an episode of the Jackson 5 cartoon
series, in 1971.
Following its success, co-writer Freddie Perren confessed the music of
ABC is the chorus of I Want You Back. ‘All we did was take that music
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and keep playing it, adding a couple of steps to it,’ he admitted. ‘We
cut the track for ABC before I Want You Back was really a big hit!’
Cited by Michael, in the early 1970s, as one of his three favourite songs
he had recorded for Motown, along with I’ll Be There and Never Can
Say Goodbye. Also named by Michael named as one of his three
personal Motown favourites in his autobiography, Moonwalk,
published in April 1988.
Previously unreleased live medley of I Want You Back and ABC,
recorded at the Jackson 5’s Los Angeles concert on 26th August 1972,
featured on the TV soundtrack album, THE JACKSONS: AMERICAN
DREAM, issued in October 1992 in the States and July 1993 in the UK.
Performed by the Jackson 5 on the Carol Burnett Show in 1974.
Salaam Remi’s Krunk-A-Delic Party Mix, on the album MOTOWN
REMIXED in 2005, featured alternate vocals.
Other remixes:
Love Stream Mix – from the album, SOUL SOURCE – JACKSON 5
REMIXES, released in Japan in 2000.
Kubota, Takeshi Remix – from the same album as above.
Readymade Super 524 Mix – from the album, SOUL SOURCE –
JACKSON 5 REMIXES 2, released in Japan in 2001.
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Justa Roots Rock Mix – from the same album as above; also included
on the Jackson 5 album, SOUL LEGENDS.
DJ Friction Remix.
Sampled by:
Vanilla Ice on Dancin’, from his 1990 album, TO THE EXTREME.
Naughty By Nature on O.P.P. (Other People’s Property) – charted at
no.5 on the R&B singles chart and no.6 on the Hot 100 in the States,
and no.35 in the UK, in 1991.
ABC – I’LL BE THERE – THE LOVE YOU SAVE
Medley of hits the Jackson 5 performed on their own TV special in the
States in 1972.
ABC – THE LOVE YOU SAVE
Medley performed by the Jacksons during the Michael Jackson: 30th
Anniversary Celebration, The Solo Years concerts, staged at New
York’s Madison Square Garden on 7th and 10th September 2001.
ABCD
Early, rejected title for the Jackson 5’s second hit single, ABC.
AFTER THE STORM (THE SUN WILL SHINE)
Unreleased track from the Jackson 5’s Motown era – written by Willie
Hutch.
AIN’T NO MOUNTAIN HIGH ENOUGH
Classic song the Jackson 5 recorded two versions of, one mid-tempo
with a spoken intro (as per the Diana Ross recording), and the other uptempo
– both remain unreleased.
Hit versions:
Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell – no.3 on the R&B singles chart and
no.19 on the Hot 100 in the States in 1967.
Diana Ross – no.1 on the Hot 100 and R&B singles chart in the States,
and no.6 in the UK, in 1970.
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友:貌似砂山認真了呢!!
砂:這ABC還真是名曲啊
友:不然哩?
- Nov 08 Sun 2009 20:29
【喜訊】Janet Jackson與Jermaine Dupri 即將步入禮堂
今年夏天,Jermaine Dupri和Janet Jackson 宣布,他们七年的关系已经达到了尾聲。新的报告表明,兩人现在是重新走到一起,甚至比以前更加認真。
Janet Jackson,43岁,计划与Dupri,37歲,舉行婚礼,根据In Touch雜誌一份新的报導。
“珍妮特和杰梅從來沒有不愛對方過,但他们开始對彼此關係想当然耳,”一位對兩人知情人士如是说。
即使他们今年早些时候分手了,兩人仍保持着密切联系。
“现在,他们希望能在明年年初结婚,兩人正積極籌備,因为在迈克尔死后,家庭裡需要一些微笑。”
- Nov 08 Sun 2009 15:00
三首
A BABY SMILES
歌曲:邁克爾曾考慮發行於《DANGEROUS》專輯,
並傳言是寫於1993年11月墨西哥產權處置法庭中
狀態:未發行。
歌詞原為一首同名詩,題為《When Babies Smile》,
收錄在邁克爾的詩文集--《Dancing The Dream》。
名為《Baby Smiles的歌詞,其中5首手書歌詞之一,邁克爾大約寫於1979在一本私人筆記本中,
封面為年輕演員 Mark Lester。現是屬於一批一萬件以上的中的傑克森紀念品收集中
由Universal Express 和其娛樂事業夥伴於2006十一月買下。
A BRAND NEW DAY
這首歌出現在邁克爾的第一部電影--《新綠野仙踪 (1978)》,
全由非裔美籍人士演出,
本片乃是重拍經典名片《綠野仙踪(1939)》,
戴安娜羅斯飾女主角多蘿西,邁克爾飾稻草人。
聯合主演的有:
Lena Horne(格林達,好巫婆),Richard Pryor(魔法師),
Ted Ross (膽小獅)和Nipsey Russell (錫人)。
電影於1978年首演,並伴隨發行以一張雙專輯原聲帶
在美國登上R&B專輯榜中第17名,和流行專輯榜第40名。
並以《The Wiz Stars》,為名做為單曲,
於幾個歐陸國家發表(但不是在英國或美國),
在荷蘭和比利時登上冠軍寶座--
邁克爾的《Don't Stop 'til You Get Enough》甚至在兩地未能登冠。
A CHANGE IS GONNA COME
Jackson 5 進入魔城之前的錄音,出土於1993年,
於日本獨有的的發行專輯《BIG BOY中,才第一次得以聽見,
同年收錄在《THE JACKSON FIVE FEATURING MICHAEL JACKSON》專輯
由Stardust label 在英國及歐洲發行。
有兩個版本問世,一個是混音的延長舞曲版本,一個是的1965年7月的原來版本
原本是由Sam Cooke創作與錄製,發行於《Ain't That Good News》專輯,
作為對Bob Dylan的《Blowin' In The Wind》的迴響。
Sam Cooke的版本於1965年初登上美國R&B單曲榜,
最高名次達到熱門百大31名 ,但未能進入英國榜。
友:砂山加油!MJ聖經等著你!!
- Nov 08 Sun 2009 11:19
A BRAND NEW DAY
A BRAND NEW DAY
Song featured in Michael’s first movie, The Wiz, an all-black remake of
The Wizard Of Oz with Diana Ross in the starring role, as Dorothy.
Michael played the part of the scarecrow, and among his co-stars were:
Lena Horne (Glinda, the good witch), Richard Pryor (the Wiz), Ted
Ross (the cowardly lion) and Nipsey Russell (the tin man).Movie premiered in 1978, and was accompanied by a double
soundtrack album that achieved no.17 on the R&B albums chart in the
USA, and no.40 on the pop albums chart.Credited to ‘The Wiz Stars’, released as a single in several continental
European countries (but not the UK or USA), going all the way to no.1
in Holland and Belgium – where it kept Michael’s Don’t Stop ‘Til You
Get Enough out of the top slot.
A CHANGE IS GONNA COME
Pre-Motown recording by the Jackson 5 first heard in 1993, when it
featured on a Japanese release, BIG BOY; later the same year, included
on THE JACKSON FIVE FEATURING MICHAEL JACKSON, issued on the Stardust label in the UK/Europe.
Two versions released, an over-dubbed extended remix and the track as
it was originally recorded, way back in 1965-7.
Written and originally recorded by Sam Cooke, for his album AIN’T
THAT GOOD NEWS, as a response to Bob Dylan’s Blowin’ In The Wind. Sam’s version achieved no.9 on the R&B singles chart in the
States in early 1965. It peaked at no.31 on the Hot 100 but failed to
chart in the UK.
- Nov 08 Sun 2009 11:17
A BABY SMILES
A BABY SMILES
Song Michael considered for his album, DANGEROUS, and cited he
had written in his Mexican court disposition in November 1993 –
remains unreleased.
Lyrics featured as a poem, titled ‘When Babies Smile’, in Michael’s
book of poems and reflections, Dancing The Dream.
Titled Baby Smiles, one of five songs hand-written by Michael circa
1979 – lyrics included in a personal notebook, with young actor Mark
Lester on the cover, which formed part of a 10,000+ piece collection of
Jackson memorabilia purchased by Universal Express and some of its
entertainment partners, in November 2006.
- Nov 07 Sat 2009 19:24
現在,呼叫邁克爾傑克遜:靈媒Derek Acorah將主持'邁克爾傑克遜:現場招魂' 特別節目 翻譯:砂山
2009年11月6日- '迈克尔杰克逊:现场招魂',是迈克尔杰克逊,最新的滑稽之最的奇事。 於昨天11月5日首先MTV.com披露,这个电视节目,全程實況,会议将由靈媒Derek Acorah主持,於英国电视台SKY 1播出。
'迈克尔杰克逊:现场招魂'另一个博取情感的伎俩?
誇張地宣傳的實況和充分的精神旅程,这个节目会準備迈克尔杰克逊的私人物品由Derek Acorah感應。除此之外還將有意想不到的神秘嘉賓,幾位杰克逊的朋友和粉絲和一位傑克森的熟識者參加節目錄影。真正對第三類接觸的計畫杰克逊,Acorah本人是讳莫如深,但可以假设他们可以與迈克尔杰克逊做某種程度的聯繫。
奇怪的是,怎麼每次有什么怪事發生在杰克逊身上,我们发现總是起因在大西洋彼端的(意味在英國)。諸位還記得那個惡名昭彰的一对一采访嗎?
现在,這个招魂的想法到不是那麼的奇怪了。奇怪的是挑选迈克尔杰克逊下來一个小时的降神,或者我們可以描述为剥削吧。粉絲們和尊重迈克尔杰克逊的人們,将會是毫无疑问地投下無限輕蔑回敬這個在电视上的滑稽場面。
幸运的是,'迈克尔杰克逊:现场招魂'将不会在美国电视上播出,所以我们等著看,看是否有人(MJ?)回應呼喚而不用浪費時間去觀賞本節目。
来源:Examiner.com'/mjsunny 翻译:juyac
http://www.examiner.com/x-21681-Anaheim-Celebrity-Headlines-Examiner~y2009m11d6-Now-calling-Michael-Jackson-Psychic-Derek-Acorah-will-be-on-Michael-Jackson-The-Live-Seance